What is the best way to avoid raped?

give in or fight them tooth and nail%26gt;?

What is the best way to avoid raped?
I would try to fight them off.Best never be a lone.
Reply:Carry peper spray
Reply:Wear a padlock.
Reply:wear a chasity belt 24/7
Reply:don't wear clothes that are too revealing, and carry a pepper spray
Reply:either giving in or fighting against it may still result in rape


but why are you asking this here ?


very strange question
Reply:Smith and wesson
Reply:beat the hell out of them!!
Reply:fight. most of them expect an easy victim, and chances are that when you make some noise they will get scared of being caught and run away.
Reply:depends on the situation and how you think you would feel if you had a memory like that
Reply:Depends on your opponent. Giving in will not avoid the rape, but may save your life if the opponent is more powerful than you. If you think you've got a chance at fighting, then go for the bastard, tooth and nail!
Reply:Well obviously if you just give in, you're not going to avoid being raped. Plus, juries suck. If you don't fight like hell, they're liable to say it was consentual. I'm in the fight like hell camp. He'll be minus some eyeballs or sporting some snapped fingers and crushed bones in his feet before he gets any from me.





Rape is about control and power, not sex. If a man is intent on raping someone, it won't matter if they're dressed like Britney Spears or a nun. Saying to wear modest clothes goes back to trying to blame the victim. Pepper spray is crap, if there's any wind you're liable to get it in your own eyes. You can do more serious damage with a set of keys held with each key coming out between your fingers in a clenched fist. No kicking the balls, the guys expect that and if they catch your foot, they can flip you on your back in 2 seconds. Eyeballs or a lip in the nails is excruciating, as is a stilletto heel in the sensitive bones atop a foot, or a finger snapped like a twig. Make the bastard suffer.
Reply:carry a weapon and use your head
Reply:If you give in, then you HAVE been raped.





Some precautions - stay alert, never travel alone in places you aren't familiar with, be aware of your surroundings, and carry some kind of a weapon or weapons. Take a self-defense class. And do not tempt fate by going to places that are known to be dangerous.
Reply:Stay out of bars and places of compromise and no one will ever target you. That applies to both genders.
Reply:1stay at home





2be inconspicuous





3be assertive





4make sure you know how the FUNK to defend your life if needed








you would not be the first to be maced with your own spray and THEN raped





5do NOT pick up any drinks you left unattended, nor take drinks from strangers





6use your common sense, go out with someone you can rely on





7radiate confidence, rapists look for weak uncertain people, it's just like with dogs, many can notice your fear....
Reply:Rape is not a sexual act. It is an act of control and violence. Their ultimate goal is to hold power over a victim. You could dress in sack cloth and still be raped.





Take a GOOD self defense course that includes techniques for fighting back, what to look for to keep yourself safe (awareness of your surroundings and what to avoid), and mental techniques to avoid appearing to be a target.





The big thing is not getting into a situation where you are at risk. This is not always possible but there are some very concrete things to avoid. I have included in the "source" section some very contrete and immediately applicable advice for those wo are NOT trained.





You do not want to look like a victim. You want your assailant to, if choosing between you and another victim, to choose another. Training shall help you not look like a victim as well as teach you the situational awareness to avoid it, if possible.





Each situation is different and what works in one situation might get you killed in another.





One of the problems with such as pepper spray, tazers, or any other weapon is this: are YOU going to go to jail. Then, can you effectively use this sort of weapon? More importantly, is the assailant going to wait around for you to dig your weapon out of your purse or pocket. If you do have it handy, is he going to take it from you and use it on YOU.





What you have to to is train. Period. And train in a GOOD self defense course. Repeat the self defense course at least once a year.
Reply:Both choices are correct; it's just a matter of what you feel you need to do to survive.





The best way to avoid being raped is to stay out of those situtions. A lot can be done to prevent rape. Don't walk alone at night, lock your doors when you come in, don't go out drinking without a trusted friend, etc. Carrying some kind of easily accessible self defense tool is also a good idea, whether it be pepper spray, a baton, a tazer, or a gun. Just make sure you are trained in handling your method of protection. A self defense course is also a fantastic idea.





If you are threatened with rape, it might help to say you have genital herpes, AIDS, or another sexually transmitted disease. Ultimately, it's your choice as to whether you feel you can fight off your attacker, or if he might kill you if you resist.





Hope this helps...
Reply:Fight...my first attack happened when I was a boy (13 years old) and though I'm effeminate, I'm not gay. My self respect kicked in, and I survived.





All of the men involved in this pathetic attempt on my self image are now in prison. Our country has revolved upon "owning" someone else, but they (Amerikan folk) have failed.





Praise God that He owns me...Hallelujah!
Reply:I have personally heard of a situation where two girls were held at knifepoint by burglars. The burglars raped the first one, who gave in, but they left the second one who screamed and fought when they tried it.
Reply:'tis a sad day when thou quivereth at the thought of thy sanctity lost. Fearest not thou, for blameth be on he who doth act in this manner. When underest a haze of confusion art ye, thy powers against he be diminshed. Companions thou must keepest close. Never befall the trap setteth by he that would taketh thine honour.
Reply:dress like a beggar or mad women so that they dont come close to you.........
Reply:Wear Modest Clothes
Reply:don't wash for days
Reply:Don''t dress like a slut that wants it.
Reply:Since you are in the R%26amp;S category - you can add another way to avoid being raped. Pray to some god to protect you. If that fails, fight them tooth and nail.
Reply:higher a body personal guard
Reply:rape the opposite before they rape u
Reply:Infect yourself with herpes and advertise that fact
Reply:Contract an STD or AIDS. Should keep them off of you.
Reply:Rape occurs why? 1. Motive. People are horny. 2. Opportunity.





It is this second aspect I will address since most people are unable to control themselves. If a woman, since those are usually the rape victims outside of prison, is raped she probably went trolling.





What is trolling? Wearing revealing clothes. Women are sometimes dumb enough to use their bodies as bait or advertisement if you prefer. That's trolling 101.





Advanced trolling involves location. It's like fishing. Sometimes it's not how long you fish but has much more to do with where you fish. Some little nooks and crannies are just better fishing spots.





When a woman, who probably can't defend herself against a 120 pound young man, put her bait "out there" in a place where the horny sap can see it and "almost taste it" this is advanced trolling.





The women who go to bars and nightclubs know what they're doing. Next comes time. How much time does it take for rape?





3-4 minutes tops. So if you're a woman, and you don't know how to defend yourself from an ex-special forces guy like me then you better not put your bait out and give someone the opportunity to rape you. Because not all guys can control themselves and behave.





Summary: If you want to be raped, put the bait out and hang out in the spots where the hooks are in the water. Oh, and never bother to learn self-defense.





BTW, pepper spray just makes some guys more aggressive.