Insane Mommy and Daddy with a Tempure when pushed to extremes?

I do not know what is in the best interest of my son.Should I not fight a restraing order,let her sell our house that she doesnt want and never see my child again at least for a few years or fight her tooth and nail?I get angry when she attacks me and yell that she is being insane with me,sometimes I may throw an item and break it,maybe once a year,but her attacks are completely insane.Do I just let the house go and let her have the happy single mommy years and focus on earing a savings for when he needs real direction in life as a teen?But I believe our house will sky rocket in value over the next few years as our citiy is poised to expand due to a particular market where I would have an extra couple hundred grand if we just can keep the house and then sell it in a few years.Not that I ever want to sell it.I could go for primary custody,but that would be too harsh to do to my wife,but I really think she is nuts.Not just saying that.I love her.I am just not able to make her happy?

Insane Mommy and Daddy with a Tempure when pushed to extremes?
You need FAR MORE competent help than ANY of us on here can give you. PLEASE go talk to someone who can give you some wise decisions. Is there ANY chance your wife would consent to joint counseling? Is your wife REALLY NUTS? If she IS, how could she POSSIBLY be a stable influence on your son? And just HOW FAR will she go to poison his mind against you during his early years WITHOUT YOU?? You MUST find a way to stay in your son's life so he doesn't feel completely deserted by you, and spend the REST of his life resenting you for it. Have you given any serious thought as to how bad he could end up acting out by the time he hits puberty and high-school? The future value of your house is NOT WORTH giving up on custody of your son!


Please, PLEASE go talk to someone! You are in my prayers! And if you want to talk further, please look up my e-mail. I've been married 29 years and have been through some stuff! I would be GLAD to talk to you!
Reply:I lost you on where your real question is, but from what I did gather, its disgusting that you would rather make a profit off of a house than take your kid out of a hostile environment.





In response to your addition: my statement still stands. If your wife contributes to a hostile situation for your kid, why abandon them? You are okay with your child in an environment you can't oversee?
Reply:I think you should let her raise the kid and get out of that relationship. It is a toxic relationship and the one who will suffer the most if you stay in it is your son. Do whats best for him by getting out of it and focusing on making money for his future. If your wife is going to act the way she does, and she refuses to get help for it, then she deserves the consequences. You need to do what is good for you and your son. Best of luck!
Reply:money is just paper that you can use to start a fire if you have no one to share it with. I would rather have 100dollars and my wife than a winning super loto ticket and not have her. whoever is important to you.
Reply:My dear friend,


First you got to relax yourself.


Dare to be yourself.


Speak out what is not happy about it.


If you really love her just bear with it and calm her down.


Both have a good and peace talk or go for family counselling if require.


Maybe she not happy with your performance in sex, go to the wed for sex technique that teach you for free.


Look like you did something very wrong or something that mad her mad. Women like guys to give in and remember never win them, just let them win if you want peace.


So what people said you are a coward, so as long as you got what you want.


By all mean try to please her and the last solution is to talk to her parents if you are not in a wrong.


I had being in your side before, I save the family by giving in everything to her. SURRENDER