Friday, May 21, 2010

Are we coming to an end?

I met my now b/f April of last year and we got together last June. At that time i was coming out of an 8 year marriage with 3 kids. It was like love at first sight I had never felt anything like I felt for him before, not even with my husband. It seems now though things are fading. I feel inside that maybe I jumped in too soon. He comes with alot of baggage I thouht I could put up with but I don't think I can. My heart and head tells me to break it off and just focus on my children. He knows how I feel and is fighting it tooth and nail. He thinks we can stay together and everything will just smooth itself out. But i think i need to be alone. Idk what to do. He is a good guy who would do anything for me but, I am just confused as to why i started having all these feelings at once. It seemed like 2 months ago we were fine....

Are we coming to an end?
Ask him for some space to think. See if you can "take a break" for a week or a month, lots of people do this, my mom is a single mom with 2 boys and she did the same thing.
Reply:relationships are crazy. as you know. you just have to follow how you feel. yea i know that is easier said then done. my kids alwas come 1st b4 anyone else. i would say. give it some time n if your feelings dnt change then maybe take a break for awhile. that always help
Reply:if someone loves each other and if they aint staying together they get tired of not seeing each other they get tired of waiting even for seconds ... and at the next moment they meet they start to make trouble and fight or blame each other cuz they love each other but cuz they are so tired of waiting so he maybe right it will be ok if u two stay together .





by the way make sure he really loves ur kids ... make sure he will do anything for em as for u or else dont even bother about putting those childrens lives in dangeour by marrying him ... so make sure he is 100 % true if he is then its ok ...
Reply:take a break to sort out your life.. if in a month your still thinking about him, give him a call
Reply:It's always good to do what's best for you especially when there's kids involved. Right now the kids come first and everything else sencond. If this relationship is not doing it for you, then you need to take a break cause if you're not happy the kids will see that and for some reason kids always seems to pick their parents moment of unhappiness to rebel against them. Take the time to figure out what you want and what's best for you and the kids. make sure you really think about it.
Reply:maybe just take a lttle time out


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