Brother-in-law vs sister-in-law ...Platonic relation poosible after all this ..??(staying under 1 roof)?

i have been posting about the tensions ..problems b/w my BIL %26amp; me! we both have shared an excellent friendship..understanding and with time due to distance which WAS created have fought tooth %26amp; nail .Today when we fight the war may last just a day and then friends ..its a vicious circle .


my bil is married and gonna be a dad soon. i understand his responsibilities . Besides , my spouse is a great guy but diue to some problems i got friendlier with bil ... and i never saw chemistry ..atrraction etc coming.


my marriage aint bad .. husband is great but honestly there is some click bit missing ..untill i discvrd feelings for bil i did not know what WAS missing .


i do miss the bil and i dont want to be so friendly as i think then il miss him more .


but our fights disrupt the peace of house.


it seems we both expect a great deal from 1 another .


we stay under 1 roof ... and thats a bit problamatic.


my Q is : will things ever get ok?





please only ppl who understand reply.

Brother-in-law vs sister-in-law ...Platonic relation poosible after all this ..??(staying under 1 roof)?
If at all u r married what do u want from your BIL?keep and love your husband if it still gets to you why don't you tell your husband that you want to move out of the house so that you stop seeing each other frequently.